I was at a wonderful soiree for summer solstice recently and in a conversation about an upcoming event I was overheard as saying “…Well, I invited him but I know he won’t go”. Yikes! I was called out on it immediately by my very highly evolved friends Betty and Jim (to whom I am most grateful for this humbling correction)! When was the last time you went into default mode and said something negative about an upcoming possibility?? Don’t be too quick to answer as it might have snuck in on you like it did for me and if you don’t have some highly evolved buddies by your side to correct you it might have gone unnoticed. Pay close attention to your dialogue….
How about “there’s no use, he’ll never go for it”…..or “she never listens to me” ….. hmm, really? You don’t say!! That is a habit we are all guilty of from time to time, yes? We become so conditioned by an ‘auto’ response that we no longer leave the door open for the possibility that maybe, just maybe this time he will go. Or ‘she’ will put her clothes away the FIRST time she’s asked…
We have to realize that we create our own realities so by making such statements as “he won’t” or “she never” we close the door to possibilities, we are telling the universe that there is no hope, so it becomes a self-fulfilled prophecy where you have now created your reality. The person in question receives the transmission through the matrix and responds exactly as you ‘predicted’….
So what if you were to change your habit and flip that comment on its ear?? Instead of prophesizing on the negative what if you were to stop, catch yourself next time and change it up to the positive?? Say ‘I invited him and I am really looking forward to him going’, or ‘She always listens to me now, it’s wonderful”…. Sounds a little different doesn’t it?
Be aware of your words, and especially the emotion behind those words. They are more powerful than you are aware. Don’t make a habit of going to your default! Play in FULL awareness!